Feeling better than she had in months, she nagged the doctor to discharge her from the hospital. 0. 0. I'm sure, but I'll go see another doctor if it will make you feel any better. 0. 0. Why don't you go see the doctor again? 0. 0. Once he saw the doctor, the entire issue would be settled. 0. 0.
Firstly, there are plenty of good doctors around and we should nurture them better. Secondly, to be a good doctor, you first have to be a good human being: "a good spouse, a good colleague, a good customer at the supermarket, a good driver on the road." Thirdly, it's easier to be a good doctor if you like people and genuinely want to help them.
However, those who have very severe symptoms or are vulnerable to complications should see a doctor more quickly. "The situations where it is important to go and see a doctor, is where either the
I went in for a prostate exam and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. She said it's common, but I was totally embarrassed. - Anonymous. 2. When I was 18 I had a lump on one of my testicles. I went in to my normal family doctor to check it out and he said we needed to get an ultrasound on it to make sure it wasn't cancer.
Had better is similar, but it's used for more urgent advice with bad consequences if you don't follow it (eg. You had better quit smoking or you'll die). Lesson by Sebastian, teacher at EC Cape Town English School Now decide which form is needed in these 8 sentences: 1. You ___ not be late again or you'll lose your job. should have should 'd better
Vay Tiį»n Trįŗ£ Góp 24 ThĆ”ng. When George M. Gould, a prominent physician, first implored Americans to get an annual physical checkup, he made it poetic. āThe ranchman has his annual round-up; the merchant his yearly account of stock and balancing of books; the machinist gives his engine a thorough going-over at regular intervals; every military organization has its reviews and inspections,ā Gould noted in a speech before the American Medical Association. ā[I]t is not so,ā he opined, āconcerning the one piece of mechanism that conditions all these things, and that is the most valuable of all earthly possessionsāthe human body.āThis was 1900, and life expectancy for all races and genders was under 50. People dropped dead of polio and smallpox. It seemed wise to get checked out regularly. Over the next century, annual checkups for all were further encouraged as a matter of war readiness and insurance cost the idea that people with no complaints should see a doctor has taken a hit. A 2013 Danish study of 183,000 people found no difference in long-term health outcomes between people who went to the doctor annually and those who went only when they had an issue. Some physicians have scrapped the idea of a yearly physical for healthy adults under 50 with no anxiety-raising family medical histories of disease and instead recommend they go every few prefer not even to do that. We asked few people who go yearsāor who have gone yearsāwithout scheduling an appointment with a general practitioner to explain what keeps them out of the waiting Rachel Pipes, 26, PittsburghI believe in health at any size, which basically means that at any weight, someone can have general basic health. My numbers have never been āoff.ā I donāt have diabetes. I do have polycystic ovarian syndrome, which testing has shown has affected my thyroid, and doctors have refused to prescribe me the medication for my thyroid unless I lose weight, even though if my thyroid was working properly, I would lose might have been 15 [when I was diagnosed with PCOS]. I know I was prime puberty years. I went to thyroid specialists and endocrinologists. There were lots of doctors. Weight loss was the only active āpreventative medicineā they would offer. Every trip to the doctorās office has come with a 15-plus-minute lecture about how, even though my numbers are good, I will die soon. Even though Iām healthy now, I will pay later in years of life for being obese. Iāve been āobeseā since I was used to go to doctors all the time, but they constantly failed me because, rather than treat my PCOS or thyroid, they asked my parents to send me to fat camp or start Weight Watchers ā both of which Iāve done, but without medication, Iām just going to stay fat it was up to me, I stopped going to a GP by choice. Whereas, when my parents were in charge of my health, the desire was to lose weight because the idea was that would help me feel better. And I have no desire to lose weight. I only have a desire to be healthy and feel good. Being fat hasnāt hurt my health. I eat right. I exercise. My hormones are a little off, but there is no cure for PCOS, so Iām one of my [public relations] clients, I had to I interview around 100 doctors from [the] Allegheny Health Network [a Pittsburgh medical and hospital system]. Almost all of them talked about how they focus on weight loss as part of preventative care, without being prompted. They were being asked questions like, āWhatās your approach to patient care?ā and over 75 percent of them are saying āweight loss.ā Itās in their training to see weight as a primary think that any doctor will tell you their approach is to listen to the patient first. With fat people, doctors tend to see fatness before they ever listen. If Iām coming in for a routine OB/GYN appointment, I donāt need to be told to lose weight. If someoneās coming in worried about pain or illness, doctors should be treating that. Yes, for some patients, losing weight is what they want and what will make them feel better, but itās certainly not the primary treatment plan for someone coming in for a rash or an ear infection, or even a cancer scare.āBrian LaRue, 36 New York CityFor all intents and purposes, my body behaves like that of a very healthy person. I sleep fine. My digestion is fine. I don't have chronic pain. I don't get headaches. I don't have asthma, all that first reaction to most pains and ailments, aside from colds, is to suspect I have a terminal condition. If I have a terminal condition, I donāt want to know how much time I have left. I once thought an ingrown hair was a tumor. I once thought a rash was a tumor. Whenever I [hit] the top of my skull really hard, I try to stay up through the night, because that's how [Dead Boys lead singer] Stiv Bators died, by going to sleep after getting a concussion. I find myself taking stock of my heartbeat very often throughout the day. A few days ago, I was worried about permanent damage to my knees after I was a little stiff for two days straight, but it turned out I was just sleeping also worry [because] I don't have a full picture of what I'm genetically predisposed toward. My dad was adopted. I don't know anything about his family's medical been to walk-in clinics twice in the last two years once after catching my ankle in a revolving door, and once to get a script for antibiotics for a sinus infection. Those didn't give me full physicals, not by a long shot. They just checked my weight and blood pressure, and confirmed I have the early stages of hypertension, which is exactly what I donāt want to hear [my girlfriend] told me I needed to make a doctor's appointment or she would dump me. I know she's joking, but I understand a joke like that comes from a real place. I booked an appointment for a checkup, originally meant for the first week of January. It got bumped back to March, because I'm new, and I was so relieved. I really don't want to go to this appointment in March, but I guess I have to force myself to face my absolutely didn't want to know about my health five years ago. I was drinking too much, I was smoking cigarettes every day, and I was eating Top Ramen four or five meals per week. I did a lot of less-than-healthy things in my 20s, and I figured, as I did with my credit, āIāll take care of it later.ā Yeah, well, now it's later, and it's freaking me consider it one milestone on a road toward accounting for my past. Other milestones have been financial. Hell, there was a time when I didn't know how much credit card debt I was Sherrell, 34, Dallas, TXUsually in my experience, Iāve never been that sick where I am dyingāand if I am, it just goes away. Iām from Syracuse. I grew up wrestling, and you kind of grin and bear it. There are worse things than just having a sniffle or a cold. Thereās been a couple of times where Iāve been pretty bad. I got the flu. Usually, if you take DayQuil and drink a lot of water, it just runs its course. Thatās been my last time I went to the doctor I was passing blood through my stool. That was a bit of a shock, so I was like, āI better go to the doctor for this one. Thatās one you might want to get looked at.ā And that was from just wear and tear on my body from wrestling. Then, before that, I think I got strep throat, my freshman year going into my sophomore year [of college] over the summer, and I got some antibiotics. Even with that, it took me about a week. I was like, āIt will get better.ā I was pounding Advils. I felt really dumb because [the antibiotics] cleared it up really broke my finger back in college on a Friday. I snapped it wrestling and I thought, āWell, the on-campus officials are gone and Iāve got tape and ice.ā On Monday, it still hurt, but I was like, āOh, this isnāt that bad,ā and it was during summer, so I was free to do whatever I wanted to do. Ten years on, my finger is crooked. My middle finger is crooked. Looking back, I should have done something but I was just like, āEh, itās not that bad. Iāll get around to it.āI have work. Between my gig, travel, and hanging out with my buddies, going to the doctor isnāt high on the list of priorities. It just slips my mind [that] I havenāt been to the doctor in a while. Iāve had one [regular] doctor my whole life from when I was a kid, but at 10 or 12, I just stopped. I never really got sick. But I didnāt mind it. You get checked out. You get away from school. Honestly, itād probably be worth it [now] just to have a day off of work. You get your physical and whatever and then you have the rest of the day. Itād probably be worth it for just that process was never bad. I never disliked it. My mom is the medical field, actually. Sheās in administration. I donāt think she knows [I havenāt gotten a physical in years]. If sheās like, āHave you been to the doctorās recently?ā Iāll just glaze over it. In the course of conversation, sheās more concerned about when I am going to get married, when sheās going to get more grandkids than if Iāve been to the think people should go to the doctor, obviously. I think itās a boneheaded move for me not to. Itās just one of those deals where you get caught up in the day-to-day and that gets pushed to the Holm, 41, Shelton, ConnecticutIn my day-to-day life, I donāt think about it. I feel like I am in generally good health. It doesnāt cross my mind. At the same time, I make sure my kids get their checkups and have all their shots. For me, Iāve only gone when I have had to go to the emergency really wants to go to the doctor and be told there is something wrong with you? At my age, I do have to think about this. My girlfriend hounds me about it. She goes to the doctor every time she starts to worry about stuff. She goes to her OB/GYN and will go if thereās something wrong with her me, itās out of mind. Itās not the best way of thinking, but it is my reality, I guess. I try to live a healthy lifestyle, but I do worry about that wakeup call, where I go and get diagnosed with something that could have been treated and Iām just that much did smoke, but I quit smoking. I play hockey. I try to eat right, not eat a ton of fatty foods. I drink three or four beers a day and I guess thatās not healthy, but Iām not fat, so to speak. I am my high school weight of 160 pounds and I try to do stuff, not be a coach at the age where I am thinking about [scheduling a checkup]. I havenāt pulled the trigger on it. I know I am at the age where Iām at increased risk of prostate probably kick myself in the ass [if I was diagnosed with prostate cancer later]. I think I would probably take it head on, but I would think I was an idiot for not going Bugey, 40, AustinAt the company I work for, the way it works is that anything up to $5,000, you have to pay for out of pocket, so it comes in handy if you are in a coma or something. But just for a general visit, itās not really worth it. So if I have a cold, I just take over-the-counter medicine, rather than go to the doctor and shell out $100 [to] $150. But I got married in November and now Iām under my husbandās insurance. I guess I probably should go have pretty good genes in our family, longevity-wise. My grandparents all lived to be in their 90s, so Iām like, āWell, they were okay, so I guess Iām okay.ā We donāt have a history of cancer or anything like think if I did go in for a physical, they would just tell me everything is okay. I donāt get dizzy or anything. I think my blood pressure is okay. I know I donāt have high cholesterol because I eat pretty well. The only thing that might be an issue is that we do have diabetes in our family, but I donāt really show any of those think I would have to be really sick [to go to a doctor]ālike, I canāt get out of bed. Or I have a 102-degree fever that wonāt break, just horrible just donāt like carving out time to go to the doctor. Iām a paralegal, so I have a pretty busy workload. Itās going to the doctorās office You have to take time off from work and then you get in there and you have to wait more and then you are there for three hours. For my job, we have to put in for any time that weāre going to miss, even if itās an extended lunch hour, and thatās a huge hassle. So Iām like, āIād rather take some NyQuil and be done with it.ā Moore, 35, Los AngelesI didnāt have health insurance for a while because I was freelancing. Even when I had health insurance, I was doing okay and I didnāt want to spend the money on it because for all of what health insurance does, itās still pretty expensive to go to the doctor. The other thing is a mental block where I think of the healthcare-industrial complex as a counterpart to the prison system, in that once you get in you canāt get out and I have been loath to get into the system. I really donāt trust American healthcare for the most Iāve come to the doctor in the last two years, itās either been to urgent care or Planned Parenthood and thatās it. I went to urgent care this weekend because I had an asthma attack. I have asthma and I have not had an inhaler in ten years, because I let the prescription lapse and then I didnāt go to the doctor! I told them I barely take any meds. I take a Zyrtec when I am having an allergic reaction and I think they were I know who sees a general practitioner is on some kind of medication and I donāt like taking a lot of drugs unless Iām really sick. Iām afraid they would ask me a lot of questions and then I would be on prescription meds for the rest of my had some bad experiences when I did go to the doctor when I was younger. It made me distrustful of how Iād be treated. When I was a teenager, I got an STD from a guy when went down on me. This was in the state of Georgia, and they treated me like I was this little whore. There was so much judgement when they were asking me about my sexual activity and what I was doing with myself. That sucked. And I had a doctor who wouldnāt put me on birth control. It really undermined my faith if doctors exist to care for people or if they just exist to do things to people to make them we had socialized healthcare, I would go to the doctor just whenever, because I feel like it would take away the question about whether or not I was a product. I feel like it is impossible to engage with the medical community as it exists within the United States without the patient being a product, and I am not interested in participating in Johnson, 32, New OrleansI went to urgent care like three years ago when I had strep throat. I had to. I couldn't never go otherwise, because first off, they just always got something bad to tell you. You don't ever go to the doctor and they're like, "Oh my goodness, we just ran your test results and we just added five years to your life!" It's always like, "We just ran your test results now take this medicine which might fuck you up even more and hopefully you'll live." Get away from me with all it's just a waste of money. I already know I'm going to die. I don't need to pay you money to tell me when I'm going to die. That's part of life. Part of life is not knowing when you're going to die. Why would I want to pay somebody to tell me when my demise is coming?I don't have insurance. To be honest with you I don't even know if I'd go [to the doctor] if I had insurance because I've never had it. I left my parents' house when I was 18 and that's the last time I had insurance so that's the last time I've had a check up, a primary care doctor, a dental exam or anything like that. And when I went back then, it didn't bother me but I didn't see any benefit in it either. Every time you went you ended up in an uncomfortable-ass situation. Don't even get me started on the racial dynamics that exist when you go to the when you're talking about a conservative city like New Orleans, and you have to go see a specialist for whatever, and all you're dealing with is the old racist doctor who has no bedside manner as he or she talks to you, even refusing to look you in the eye. And you're like, why am I paying this high ass co-pay again?I went to go see a dermatologist once, who was a white, and what was perplexing to me was how he could talk to me about [my skin]. He was highly recommended and he was about my age. I was looking at him like, you can't possibly talk to me about my skin. You're not an expert on that. You're not what I'm looking This Next We Asked Doctors What Our Dumbest Health Beliefs Are
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